As my "babies" turn 20 months old today, I have found myself reflecting on all their achievements and continued development. It really is amazing how fast they grow up.
Several of the girls at daycare have asked periodically which of the boys is technically older. When we tell them Lincoln, they usually say "Really?". I've come to expect their surprise. Jackson is definitely more independent, and at daycare, more outgoing. You may recall that when they moved into Tiny Tots (their current room), they tried to take Lincoln over there a few times, and he cried, but once they moved Jackson, Lincoln was fine since his brother was there.
Both of the boys are doing great on their development, but at home, Jackson definitely is mastering skills faster than Lincoln. He is a great helper too - puts his toys back where they belong, picks up his books when he's asked to, and even fights with daddy for the broom and dust pan so he can "help" sweep up the mess on the floor after dinners. Last night, he even went up a few stairs without holding onto anything! Gotta love my little independent man.
The cutest thing happened last night, which has me wondering if it is possible that the doctor pulled the wrong child out of my uterus first. After baths, we were heading downstairs for milk. Lincoln has been refusing to walk up and down the stairs - easier to be carried. Brian is trying to be steadfast that this is the "week of walking up and down the stairs". Well, Lincoln was having no part of it last night. Jackson was holding my hand going down the stairs, and Lincoln was throwing a fit. Brian tried asking if Lincoln wanted to hold mommy's hand instead, but to no avail. We were talking things through, trying to get Lincoln to come down the stairs on his own. Next thing we knew, Jackson turned around, walked back up the 3 stairs he had come down, and stood beside his brother. He reached over and took Lincoln's hand - like he was going to help him down! It was so cute and adorable...and made my heart melt. Not only does Jackson like to help mommy and daddy with things around the house, he's trying to be "big brother" and help Lincoln too. I wish I would have had my camera.
After seeing Jackson do this, I also remember the times that he's given Lincoln his sippy cup, or taken a toy to him (usually after he's swiped it in the first place, but still...). He may be the little brother (in both birth order and size), but he definitely looks out for and tries to help take care of his little brother.
I hope and pray that their close relationship continues for many years to come.
Hope everyone has a great day!
Love,
Kate, Brian, Lincoln and Jackson
